tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8407227988973802015.post3203146132362449283..comments2023-03-27T05:31:51.730-05:00Comments on Get to the Inside: Two Sides of FantasyAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10894198889834343321noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8407227988973802015.post-1366284463603602772009-09-17T19:33:47.371-05:002009-09-17T19:33:47.371-05:00I know what you mean. Felt this way for a long tim...I know what you mean. Felt this way for a long time. felt like I would die if someone even the 'bad' someone left.Nikki (Sarah)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13731200601840020130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8407227988973802015.post-29660410419020530212009-09-16T00:36:14.686-05:002009-09-16T00:36:14.686-05:00Preach, Ms. Greene!
I agree. And I would add-- ju...Preach, Ms. Greene! <br />I agree. And I would add-- just as no one can fill you-- nor should they. Depending on the 'other' (and this could be more than a person, right? It could also be a thing/addiction) to fill me means I'm not comfortable with myself. (and probably my lack of spirituality) The goal for me is to get to a place where I don't have a hole-- because my self-esteem and my higher power fill me quite nicely, thanks.<br /> <br />The kind of relationship I want for myself in the future is drastically different then the kind I always wanted before discovery. <br />In the future, I want to shoot for a relationship where we don't try to fill one other-- but we can be ourselves and compliment each other. I can have my own, independent activities when I need them for me, (yoga, girl time, alone time, etc.) and same goes for the mystical 'he.' <br />I sure hope that kind of guy exists-- I don't want to be someone's everything anymore. Because that means I'm not seen for myself, and all of the specific things that makes me great, either. <br />No fantasy, please!Bernadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05551640226103805937noreply@blogger.com